My Husband Doesn't Enjoy Sex

In the beginning, he couldn't get enough. But these days, you're the one initiating sex and he's the one rejecting you. What's going on?

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My Husband Doesn't Enjoy Sex: Love Bytes with Tracey Cox
My Husband Doesn't Enjoy Sex
Love Bytes with Tracey Cox
In the beginning, he couldn't get enough. But these days, you're the one initiating sex and he's the one rejecting you. What's going on?

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  1. Orville Raposo
    (July 1, 2009 06:43 AM)

    Keep it up.

  2. Bibiana
    (January 23, 2009 02:56 AM)

    The same here as Bien writes before me. After loading your videos first, I couldnt stop listening. Actually, my marriage is coming to an end also because of this. I tried hard to consider all these reasons and to wait until my husband stops being so tired after work. He didnt always tell me the reason of his lack of interest. We hardly had sex once in two months. He hadnt tried to do anything to make it better. Now we are more and more apart and slowly ending...

  3. Bien
    (January 16, 2009 01:30 AM)

    Your information are incredible I can't stop listening to you. I am not in a relationship and most of my children are adults. I wish I had this opportunity when I was in a relationship. You are marvellous. Thank you.

  4. alice
    (December 10, 2008 06:03 AM)

    when are you going to have anymore videos tracey cox or do you gout any books out there ?cause i really like you're videos on the you're first kiss

  5. Isabella
    (August 30, 2008 05:39 PM)

    Leave the guy and find someone who will treat you right and love your body. It is extremely important for us women to feel sexy and desired, especially by our boyfriends, fiances, husbands. The intimacy and satisfaction from regular sex makes us happier in general. It is a must for a happy successful marriage

  6. somebody9999 (Rose)
    (December 28, 2007 01:31 PM)

    hello, all. I am in one of those almost sexless relationships. my husband love me dearly but I suffer for affection from him. I try cuddling with him but he tenses up thinking I want sex from him. we have sex once a month or longer sometimes and only when I throw a tantrum about it. I keep trying to talk to him about it but he is not listening. I would be happy with just oral sex if he doesn't feel like it but I've told him this before and its obviously not important to him. he has diebetes and I'm that is what the prolem is so I have been patient the past 8 years with this. but my patience is running out. I find myself on-line talking to other guys and wanting to meet them. what can I do? If I tell him I feel it will ruin our marriage. Each time I tell him I need sex more often he give it to me pretty regular for a little while then always slips right back into the same rut. I know he love me and we have great sex when we do have sex. just not enough. Maybe another man on the side would take some pressure off of him but I'm affraid of it affecting how I feel about him. What should I do?

  7. shirin nishat
    (October 28, 2007 03:16 AM)

    sd

  8. PATRICK NYAKAHUMA
    (October 27, 2007 03:02 AM)

    Am just beginning to read! send me more information. thanks.

  9. MARK
    (October 26, 2007 11:55 AM)

    I know that this is a problem for some men, but for those of us who have sexless marriages, it doesn't matter whether you are a man or woman. We need that intimacy to survive. My wife is "disabled" and has had no desire for sex/physical intimacy for about five years. It has put a significant strain on our relationship even though we both love each other dearly. I cannot ask her to allow me to find other "outlets" as it would devistate her, but being 48 and pondering being celibate for the rest of my life just doesn't sound possible. Anyone have any advice?

  10. debra
    (October 26, 2007 01:36 AM)

    I can't believe the ignorant comments such as "He's probably beating off in the shower cuz his wife got fat and ugly". Or "Maybe if you lose some weight and get hot again". Marriage should mean for life, through ups and downs, good times and rough times. Passion and making love isn't about looks. Intimacy grows deeper over time and sex gets better and better. I hope these superficial people never get married, they are clueless. If they are married, their spouses are probably sleeping with someone else, someone with substance and depth that cares about them. Wake up!

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