THE ONE THAT CHEATS IS THE ONE TO TELL THE CHILDREN! IF NOT TELL THEM THE TRUTH. THEY WILL GROW UP ONE DAY AND FIND THE TRUTH ON THEIR OWN SOME KID IN SCHOOL WILL HEAR THERE MOMMY AND DADDY TALKING AND WILL TELL THEM AND THEY WILL DISREPECT YOU FOR LIEING IF YOU ARE NOT HONEST WITH THEM. ABOVE ALL DON'T VERBALLY BEAT UP THEIR DAD IF KIDS IN THE HOUSE THEY CAN HEAR YOU THEY ARE ALWAYS LISTENING .